Yesterday, I shared some of my story about how I went from ZERO confidence to having plenty. What I’m about to share with you is something that became much clearer to me as I began to craft the hypnotic script for the new Confidence Maximizer Hypnosis.
And that is how you can be confident in your confidence.
That might throw your mind for a loop, so let me explain…
But first, it is useful to know the difference between confidence and competence.
Confidence is how you feel about doing something.
Competence is your ability to do it.
Ideally, you want to have both of these things.
However, studies show that even if you have zero competence (i.e. you have no idea what the hell you are doing), you STILL PERFORM BETTER if you are confident about it. Just contrast that to people that are competent but still lack confidence. They’re really shooting themselves in the foot performance-wise.
Think of doing an exercise like a handstand pushup.
A person that doesn’t quite have the strength, but just goes for it is more likely to accomplish it than the person that is strong enough, but has zero belief in his ability to do it. In the latter, they’ll quit before they even begin.
Although they are often related, confidence is actually independent of your ability, or lack of ability, in any area of life.
Now, I’m not saying you should be filled with hubris and swagger when you’re only full of B.S. There is a time and a place to be humble about your ability, for sure. But even when you are learning something new, you want to begin to apply what you learn in a confident way. This allows you to gain the skill far faster than if you hem and haw about it.
So that brings us up to the idea of being confidently confident.
Basically, confidence can be generalized.
If you’re good and confident at one thing, you can take that FEELING of confidence anywhere you please. Do this a few times and you will become confident in your ability to be confident…regardless of the area.
Confidence becomes internalized.
How do you do this?
In it, I guide you through these steps, and more, in a way that will build it into your unconscious and conscious mind, giving you the ability to be confidently confident.
It’s not the only way, but it is one way I guarantee will work for you, or your money back.